Wednesday, February 23, 2005

My Father

We have dinner with my parents this evening. Dad told me and mum that he got a friend who just gave birth to a pair of twin baby girl, very cute, very heavy.

With all the excitment on his face he then said his friend has been married 2 years time, same as me. Then mum look at him and then me, giving me the suggestive look. The look which says "married for 2 years, and then kids". Of course I well recieve that look.

For some time I very reluntant to serve their wishes in this aspect because I don't want to do something just because they ask me to do. But now since we have make our own decision (even on the same topic any how), the feeling is completely different. I would some how anticipate that they are also going to share our joy. I am doing something good, and they could share it. This feeling is good.


Saturday, February 19, 2005

The Incredibles

It is very excited to have the idea of starting a family. I have to admit that I still believe the Pixar new effort "The Incredibles" is one of my catalysis to confirm the baby making decision.

It would be a long road, I know. And it would be difficult. But I believe it would be an exciting and meaningful journey, for both of our kids and for ourselves as a couple. We are not doing this only for ourselves, or only for the kids. We are going to form (or expand) the team, and we are going to have fun as a team.

I don't need my kids to have super power. I only need them to be happy, kind heart, and willing to listen my speech (and I know that is the hardest part!).


Sunday, February 13, 2005

First Step of Our Journey

This is the first step of our journey towards the arrival of our new family member. The tentative name for her/him is Hazel or Arthur (the baby naming was even before the first step! See how excited we were already!)

We would like to record every single moment of our thoughts, feelings, experiences, happiness and arguments during this journey. And most important of all, we hope that we could let Hazel/Arthur knows her/his story before she/he was even born.